You’re Not Going to Mature Overnight


The Epidemic of Impatience

For many Christians, they want their spiritual growth like their food: fast and good quality.


Our culture has brought up Millennials (including myself) to want and expect things fast. Not just fast, but of good quality too. When a new app comes out, a new Netflix series, a new Facebook feature, or whatever it may be, we want it fast, easy to work, and of excellent quality – hopefully like nothing we’ve already seen or experienced. The problem with this Millennial expectation is that it’s created an incredible epidemic of impatience.


The reality is that not everything will meet that expectation, resulting in impatience, resulting in annoyance/irritation, resulting in anger/frustration, and finally resulting in a distaste and rejection of “blank” (whatever the expectation was for).

Spiritual Maturity and Impatience

One of the many ramifications of this epidemic of impatience is that it’s seeped into the Christian’s spiritual growth.


Christians today are impatient when it comes to their spiritual maturity. They want to be like Jesus fast and genuinely. But here’s the reality: we don’t mature overnight. As much as we would love to be perfectly loving, gracious, kind, forgiving, compassionate, and generous overnight, it’s just not going to happen.

Your maturity as a Christian is not a fast food meal.

All of Life

You see, the journey of sanctification (becoming more like Christ) is a “whole life” thing. Living a Christian life isn’t like wearing a new outfit. To wear a new outfit, you simply pick out a few pieces of clothing, purchase it, put it on, and you’re done! But living a Christian life isn’t just an outward change. The Christian is literally a “new creation.” Paul, in 2 Corinthians 5:17, writes, “…if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” And Jesus Himself while talking with Nicodemus says, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God.” (John 3:3)

A Christian is born again, and therefore a new creature.

If anyone has seen a newborn baby, you know that you’ll have to wait at least 4-5 years before you can have a somewhat coherent conversation with them. In the same way, the Christian life takes time. Sanctification takes time.

If you’re a Christian and want your spiritual maturity like your fast food, then I’m sorry – it’s not going to happen.

So What?

So, where do you start? Jesus, in John 17:17, says to His Father, “Sanctify them in the truth; your word is truth.” What does He mean? He means that we are sanctified (made like Jesus) through and by the truth. What’s the truth? The Word of God. Start with the Bible. Read it, reread it, read it again, and pray all the while.


The challenge that every Christian will have in this is to reject the notion that suggests you can change overnight, and prepare your heart and mind for a long, difficult, and seemingly impossible journey. Yes, patience is a must.


But what’s the beautiful thing about this long, difficult, and seemingly impossible journey? I can think of two things off the top of my head: 1) indescribable joy throughout, and 2) you’re heading for Jesus.


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